It is often heard that marriage is taken as a milestone in the Arab world and is seen as the biggest life achievement of one’s life. Growing up in Arab’s home means you will always have to hear the phrase you are not going to get married if you don’t know how to do these things.
Sometimes this is the only reason that Arab girls think that marriage is the biggest achievement in life and they can only breathe once they get married.
Everything they do to please their parents seems like it further minimizes their chances of getting married because they never appreciate their task, and this is the sad reality of life. These are the seven most ridiculous things your parents use to blame you that it is the hurdle in your marriage.
1-If you don’t know how to make Arabic coffee: You should learn how to make a perfect Arabic coffee, and if you fail to serve a perfect cup of Arabic Qahwa to your parents they will just say one sentence, you will not get married! Rather than saying you should learn how to make a perfect coffee.
2-If you fail to clean the microwave: No matter you cleaned each corner of the entire house but if your mom finds any tiny spot on the top hidden corner of your microwave, they will simply say that you are not getting married and forget all the hard work you have done so far.
3-If you fail to clean your dishes: Arab moms will easily judge that you cannot get married because you forgot to wash your dishes in the kitchen sink. This makes everyone think, how can these unclean dishes predict their future.
4-If you hit 25: This is the logic of every parent. If you are a girl and you have reached 25 then you will remain unmarried. This thing tortures the most. How can they say that a girl can never get married if she has reached 25 years?
5-If you are not being handy in the Kitchen: You will not get married if you fail to do any kitchen chore or you don’t know how to do the kitchen work and how to cook the food because this is the judgment of Arab parents.
6-If you fail to do your chores: Living in an Arab house you will never be allowed to rest all the time, you will always have to keep your room clean, you should know how to do your chores perfectly and if you fail in this task, your parent will end up saying just one sentence, you will not get married.
7-On everything you do, or you don’t: No matter whatever work you know, or you don’t know, your Arab parents will end up saying just one thing nobody will marry you because.
The reason is the work you have done is incomplete or imperfect. Imperfect because it doesn’t satisfy their expectations and will fail to satisfy others. The only solution to all this problem is you should learn to be perfect in every aspect of life.