In today's time, people consider the fact they should get married in their thirties which according to me isn't such a wise decision to make. Many people run away from tying a knot and wish to complete their studies and do all the things which they want without any responsibilities.
Many men want to get married once they have established their own career properly but maybe there are reasons why one should rethink this decision. Today's read will basically give you basic outlines on why one should marry in your twenties especially if you have found your match.[irp]
1-To begin with, I suppose marrying early gives you the most of the opportunity to know one another. Living on life with your soul mate through their twenties will give you enough of the time to know them about their past and then gradually build up your past with them.
In this time, you can get used to their lifestyle and make them adapt to your likes and dislikes. This is a common thing that if not dealt properly can cause the most romantic relationships to end.
2-Marrying in your early age gives you the liberty to enjoy your sex life. Sex is one of the basic needs of male and female. The spark of sex reduces gradually as you get older. Marrying at your early age will let you do those experiences which you will not do if you marry in 30’s as now you are mature enough. I hope you can understand my point.
3-Next up is the magical things that engulf a person when they are in their twenties. Getting married early will give you the benefit to travel and do anything you want to with your girlfriend, sorry I mean Wife.
Now that you are married to your loved one, you have no restrictions. It's all just you two in the spotlight. You can easily make the most of it enjoying honeymoons better, make the most of the parties with your friends and give you ample of time to make the most of being young.
Who wouldn't want to enjoy the most adventurous things in life with their soul mate? Of course, everyone is dying to go through that phase again. You can avail it.
4-What I find strange is that people avoid getting married at an early age because they think they aren't ready for it even if they have found their match. They avoid it all because they want to wait for the right time.
If you ask me I suppose there is no perfect time for marriage. You'll eventually have to go through everything even when you're forty. Your partner will be there for you, through your good days and bad. They will help you throughout. Getting married will open the possibility for you two to not lose one another.
5-Many couples think that getting married early and having kids will put up many responsibilities on them. However, they forget about the pros. Having kids at the age of 28 will make you cool parents.
You can be their friend as they grow up, you can enjoy treks and other adventurous things without thinking that you have a bad leg or so. You can re-live all the cool things with your own children!
How cool will that be? This way before you retire they will be old enough to apply for a job themselves. This way you can not worry and be happy.
6-Getting married early gives you thoughts that maybe you aren't settled in properly. However, getting married makes you more responsible and you will be well enough old while being young to take on important decisions and challenges.
Getting married early will help you bridge the gap with your family. When you are in your twenties you tend to ignore the family and bond more with yourself. Getting married will allow you to attend family gatherings and partied and along with that allow you to enjoy with your friends.
7-You may not like me for pulling this up but this is a fact that one must keep into consideration that there is no guarantee that a marriage will last. Nothing is perfect and thus neither is any marriage.
If it ends you will still have the time to get married again. This is an important fact that will allow you to think about the wider possibilities better.
8-Last but not the least and perhaps the most important benefit is that when you are in your 20s, your mind is the most attracted towards opposite sex. Once you are married, all these negative thoughts have vanished and you can concentrate well on your career.
It is also the teachings of Islam to get married to avoid the risk of going in the wrong ways to fulfill your basic need of having sex.